I stand with the responsible.
“You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today.” Perhaps Abraham Lincoln directed this to the societal fathers and mothers whom might have drastically attempted to shame mother nature by blaming it for their actions. When a heart is built, step up and prepare to create ultimate means to include the newborn to your tasks. There’s no ‘ati-ati’ about it. Take a visit to children’s homes often with your significant other, you’ll mostly see cuteness in the fateful eyes of these infants. Stand to be awakened by the depth of the ills of the community, to shy away from transforming the same intimacy energy into parenthood. These are children left off in hospitals right after birth and a number often abandoned in streets and bushes, if not rugs and trash bins. While there, take a good look at the innocence held within this prospective children. The irony lasts behind the ‘Why?’ Do they deserve that? Do they need to be there? Let us call a spade; were it for that level of fear, you too would not have existed. Wouldn’t it only be fair to play a safer game by giving back to what life offered you? If it is a partnership issue, try to understand how best you can merge through equipping yourself with books like The 5 Love Languages and perhaps gift your male spouse such excerpts; A Responsible Father.
Responsibility is accepting that you are the cause and the solution to the matter at hand. It is right about 9 months; ample time to do the undone. Great opportunity lies within our eyes in readiness for the incoming living gift. But ‘what?’; Is it your ego that stands past your existing excuse to laziness? Is it the money, raising the child alone, a health issue, the stigma from your age group, being battered black by your folks, or fear of the new experience? We find that it is mostly the above causes and lack of sexual health education, poor knowledge regarding family planning, restrictions regarding access to abortion, the child having some form of disability, the child being HIV positive, pregnancy as a result of rape, abuse or force by partner, and lack of services and resources to support parents who have children with disabilities. Suggested book: What to Expect when Expecting.
Can’t you simply use that Kshs 200 ($2) a week to earn Kshs 10,000 ($100) by sparing 2 hours a day just in readiness of this worthy course? The price of greatness is responsibility, an excuse to it only makes you more feeble and inconsiderate. The final forming of a person’s character lies in their own hands. The mode of how they handle things in secrecy is what brings out their true self. However, to avoid such calamities, seek Social assistance, Day-care facilities, Family planning services, Counselling services for the f/mother and/or the whole family, Financial support, Parent ‘training centres’, Helplines to support of/mothers in need, Guidance on preventing child abandonment at maternity units, Social workers in maternity units, Training of hospital staff to be able to recognise and manage high-risk situations and provide positive counselling. All these exist and it is more reason Urban Swift Function Group Ltd is making such attempts to manage and improve living standards and businesses through multimedia and other programs.
It is high time to consider this more of an opportunity to realize your potential. Like a pen’s ink getting stuck at the peak of signing a will to you on someone else’s deathbed, wont you find an alternative? Was it too sweet that a Kshs 50 ($0.50) contraceptive was too expensive compared to catering for a child’s growth? Okay, now that we are at it, can’t we spare the public’s views and stand by your two feet to curb the matter that has popped up? At least pretend to care about mother nature, but you cannot pretend to show up at what it brings. Remember that responsibility finds a way, irresponsibility only makes excuses! Recommended books: Parent Effectiveness Training and Portrayal of Different Genders.
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